Summer's almost over, but that doesn't mean the fun has to end. Whether you've been living your best brat life or feel like you missed out, there's still time to make this season unforgettable. Thanks to British singer Charli XCX, this summer has been all about embracing your inner “brat” – living unapologetically, indulging in what makes you happy, and partying away with messy joy, even if you say a few dumb things or have the occasional breakdown. 

So if you feel like you missed the memo or haven’t brought brat to this summer of love, it’s not too late. We’ve got you covered.

Omar van Ommeren is a psychotherapist specializing in social behavior and a Meeno Relationship Expert. He’s here to guide you through embracing this playful and empowered mindset, even as the season winds down.

1. Embrace the Late Start

• Who says you need to have started in June? There’s still time to live your brat summer to the fullest. Start now by making a list of things you’ve been wanting to do with your summer crush or things you’ve been wanting to say. Whether it’s making a move or having that conversation about her ex – don’t overthink it. 

2. Set Boundaries Like a Boss

• Being a brat isn’t just about being wild and free; it’s also about knowing your limits and sticking to them. Are friends or family members getting in the way of your dating life? Is your boyfriend spending too much time with his ex and you’ve had enough? Use Meeno to practice those tough conversations so you can set boundaries with confidence and grace.

3. Indulge Without Guilt

• Whether it’s getting some me time and taking a solo day trip or spending the day binge-watching your favorite show with your beau, indulge in what makes you happy without the guilt. A brat summer is about unapologetic joy – and Meeno’s got your back with tips on how to silence inner criticism and embrace the fun.

4. Stay Playful

• Keep the vibe light and playful. Try something different – a new night out, a new recipe, or even a new way of styling your outfits.  Trying something new can be done together, or solo.  Either way, it helps keep the summer dating spirit fresh. Meeno’s always here for ideas to explore a new side of yourself!

5. Master the Art of Saying No

• A key part of dating, brat summer style, is knowing when to say no. Whether it’s a place and time that doesn’t work for you,  you’re being pressured to do something you’re not ready for, or if someone’s stepped over an emotional boundary - saying no can be empowering. Use Meeno’s tools to help you practice turning down what doesn’t serve you without feeling bad about it.

6. Carefree Responsibility

• Embrace carefree responsibility by setting your own rules for the game of life. Knowing your boundaries ahead of time can provide a sense of safety and freedom, as long as you stick to the rules you’ve set for yourself. It’s about enjoying the moment while being mindful of your limits. And don’t forget, you can always start over and learn from the past

So, the big question is - did you successfully embrace the brat when it came to dating this summer?

Sadly not, it seems… Worries about a partner’s former relationships, whether to try dating a friend, or how much time is normal for a partner to be with their friends, are just some of the niggling anxieties floating around our mind these sun-filled days.

Incorporating Meeno into Your Brat Summer: Meeno isn’t just an app; it’s your personal guide to mastering the art of relationships and is considered one of the best AI dating tools. Whether you need advice on setting boundaries, finding the confidence to say no, or simply indulging in what makes you happy, Meeno provides personalized insights and tips to help you fully embrace your dating life during these last precious weeks of brat summer.